From New York City to Gray-Parker Funeral Home in Port Jervis, N.Y. Take either the Major Deegan (North) or G.W. Bridge onto Palisades Parkway North to the New York State Thruway (North) to Exit #16 (Harriman) same exit for Woodbury Commons. Go Through the Toll Booth and Straight onto Route 17 West (Soon to Be Route 86) to Exit #123 (For Route 17m & 6 West-signs for Port Jervis). At exit #123 you will go under a small tunnel and merge onto Route 17 m & 6 West. Follow 17 m West for approximately 6 miles to Interstate 84 West (See signs for Port Jervis). Go approximately 16 miles West on I-84 to Exit #1 (Last exit before Pennsylvania). At end of exit ramp take a left at stop sign. Go about 100 yards to traffic light and bear right onto East Main Street.
You will go about 6 blocks and will see Bon Secours Community Hospital on Right. Go 1 more block and you will see a school on Right.
Gray-Parker Funeral Home is the next building Past the School on right side.
From New Jersey to Gray-Parker Funeral Home in Port Jervis, NY New Jersey Turnpike North (about 2 Exits)Onto Interstate 280 WEST, Follow 280 West to Interstate 80 West to Exit 34 for (Route 15 north). Follow 15 North approx. 15 miles thru LaFayette, NJ. Then go Approx. 3 miles (will pass a large nursery on Right) to a traffic light and Rte. 15 ends. Go straight ahead onto Route 206 North until you get into Montague, NJ. When you come into Montague, NJ you will see a Mobil Gas Station on Left and go another ½ mile and you will see a school on the Right. Just past the school you come to a Y in the Road with a house sitting in the middle of the road. Turn Right at the Y Onto Clove Road which is also (County Route 653) towards Port Jervis. You will also see Blue H (Hospital) Signs. Go 7 Miles on Clove Road (County Route 653) to a Stop Sign at the intersection of Route 23. Turn Left onto Route 23 North go ¾ mile to Traffic Light and Turn Left onto East Main Street in Port Jervis. You will go about 6 blocks and will see Bon Secours Community Hospital on Right. Go 1 more block and you will see a school on Right. Gray-Parker Funeral Home is the next building Past the School on right side.